I am 6w1d. The doc is basing everything on my IUI date.
I went in for my first u/s today. There was no yolk sac and no fetal pole. Although I knew there was a possibility that we would not see a heartbeat, I knew that by this time we would see the gestational sac, the yolk sac, and a fetal pole. I was hoping for a heartbeat.
The PA did the scan today, and she looked and looked and said, "this is not good news, we really should be seeing at least the yolk sac by this point"
I will be going back on Monday for a re-check, but she says at this point it does not look good.
You know it is bad when your nurse says, "Don't worry about the co-payment, we will figure that out later" And then grabs the tissues for me.
I am devestated. I know people will say, "Hey, maybe you just have a late implanter" or "Maybe it just is a late bloomer" etc - now as much as I WANT those things to be true - When the doctors office says it does not look good, I kind of have to believe them.
My husband was there with me today - thank God. I was not bawling hysterical. Having him there helped me feel not as alone.
OH and THANK GOD I decided not to go for this u/s on my birthday!!!!