Nope - not talking about Lil J.
We just found out that Colin's father's wife is pregnant and due in August. So, he will have siblings that are only about a month apart.
I am not mad over the news, I knew it could happen. But, what bothers me the most is that now in addition to not really knowing his father, he will not know a sibling as well.
Colin sees his father maybe 2x a year. Which means that he will see this child maybe 2x a year. It just makes me sad that Colin will not have a relationship with this child.
Yes, in a few years Colin will be driving (gasp), but what 17+ yr old is gonna want to drive 3+ hours to see a toddler? Yes, it is very possible that as they get older they may have some kind of relationship, but that won't come for a long long time.
On another note, it would be really funny if we both picked out the same names lol
Wow! That is crazy similar to my own situation that (of course) I have to share now: My mom and stepmom were pregnant at the same time, stepmom delivered in April, mom delivered in May, both girls. I never knew how awesome the age difference between them and myself would be (12 yrs) now- they are so so awesome with my twins, it works out perfectly.
ReplyDeleteGrats on the great 20 week appt!!!